We must understand the other person. We should not always try to make ourselves understood. We must feel the other person’s feeling. Words should not be important. If required, we must embrace the pain but we should never hurt the other person. We must not demand love. Instead, we should care for the one we love.
Cut the excuse. Nobody holds you up except yourself. Excuses are mostly a convenience you use to justify your present status. You need to cut yourself lose and get ahead. Only you are responsible for what you wish to achieve in life, for where you wish to go in life. If you do it, all credit goes to you. If you don’t, nobody even has time to know the reasons. You are free to decide about yourself. Yes, you are.
It is good to test yourself but be your own judge. Don’t bother how the world judges you as far as you have passed in your own judgement. It will be impossible for you to justify all your actions to the world. When you don’t allow the world to examine you, it will criticise you more. Ignore. In fact, when you don’t take the world’s test, you pass.
I have a past. Though I have come a long way, still, a part of my past haunts me. I wish I could change it. I can’t. And I can’t share it with you because you will judge me differently than you do now. Today, I am happy to receive the world’s appreciation and it feels nice that people consider me worthy of their friendship. But you don’t know everything about me. I fear to lose you and so I stay silent. If you promise to forgive me, I will tell you my sins.
Our nature is never to be happy. No matter how much we get, we still want more. Surprisingly, when we don’t have something, a little seems like an ocean. However, when we are blessed with something, we want more. When we have something, we don’t care. When we lose it, we want it back. The whole life passes in between this phenomenon. We hardly live.
Never talk loose. Never. You may achieve big things in life but loose talk can deny you respect. You can make a great impact in other people lives but they may not trust you because of loose talks. You must talk big and talk inspirational but a loose remark can greatly impair your reputation. Be cautious of this. Control your words and you can make a big impact.
Our past shapes our future. It happens slowly. It happens without we being aware of it. Everyone says that we should let go of our past but they too dive deep into it. It is easier said than done. Our past can make us weak. It can also make us stronger. The choice is ours but it is difficult to let go of it completely. Our past is a part of our life. We can’t cut it off just like that. Look ahead but make peace with past.
You can’t be right all the time. It doesn’t mean you have to stop trying. You need to hit the bull’s eye just once. It will compensate for all the misses. When you are off target, you will face a lot of criticism. Get motivated rather than giving up. Once you hit the target, the same critics will praise you as if they were always with you.
A man is defined by the decisions he take. Decisions can go either way. Still, decisions must be taken. Fear of going wrong should not stop you. Indecision is worse than decisions that go wrong. When the intent is good, the chances of your actions going right increases. When decisions are backed by integrity, the results are mostly satisfactory. Define yourself with the decisions you take.
Share your expertise. Help others grow. It won’t affect your growth. Even if it does, do it anyways. Because, this is the right thing to do. Before you go, make someone like you. May be even better. Don’t let your knowledge end with you. Share it with the world so that it compounds. Your achievements are worthy of appreciation. Share it. It will become immortal only when it doesn’t die with you.
