When you hit someone with anger, criticism and complain, you are not hitting them but satisfying your own ego. It is mostly a revenge you are taking because others might have done so to you at some point of time. By doing this you are involuntarily becoming part of a chain which is destroying the human potential and filling negativity in people. Rather, you can change this. Share love and compassion and also encourage people to move forward and payback to those who did the same with you.
Don’t wait for people to support you. Don’t wait for approvals. Don’t wait for the full proof plan. Make a start. Some of the things won’t work out. Your plan may go bust. Still, don’t let this deter you. Be flexible. As you continue in your journey, things will start falling in place. It’s a test everyone has to pass through. Those who stop, fail. those who don’t, reach higher.
Imagine this. You are at the end of life and a judgement about how well you lived it is to follow. All your actions throughout life will be fairly taken into consideration but the condition is; you can’t speak in your defence. Only your actions will. What do you think will be the judgement if it were to happen today? Take a clue and live it well.
I have been reborn. The past has been forgiven and the pain has been sacrificed. Ego has been killed and the complains are over. Grudges have been sidelined and tears have lived their course. The smile is back and optimism is roaring. The mind is at work and the soul has been cleaned. The present is mine and the future is waiting.
He came far from where he began. He reached the crossroads. He had the choice to keep going. Still, he took the turn. People behind called him a fool. People ahead called him wise.
We must never apply force in relationships. It never works. We might be hurt. We might need support. We might have an emotional need. Still, we must never insist others to show their love, care and concern towards us. A response due to force is worth nothing. We must only give. Selflessly. And in our act of giving we must find our own strength. When we feel love for someone, it itself is fulfilling.
Be the best you can be. That will be the greatest gift you can give to your creator. You were sent on earth with a high hope. Overshoot the expected performance. It’s time to cut loose, let go of the mundane things in life and focus on what you are best at. Don’t worry about the result. Leave it on to the examiner. HE knows best how to judge your final score.
Some risks must be taken. A few of them may go the other way. Still, they will make you wise and make you stronger for the next one. Eventually, you will learn to handle them. A life without challenge is worth nothing. The fact is, we mostly crave to make things happen but insecurity plays a spoil sport. Playing safe your entire life can give you the bread. Taking chances can win you the world.
I do not doubt your intellect which you have acquired with a lot of effort. However, I am more keen to know whether you are passing your expertise to the world or not. Unless done so, it will be wasted. Don’t fear that others will overtake you. Don’t restrict the power of sharing and building a better world. Prepare others so that when the lead actor stops, the show goes on.
We blow our modest achievements out of proportion but hide our grave mistakes from everyone. We waste so much time but pretend to be busy all the time. We forget our wrong doings but miss no opportunity to prove the other person wrong. We prefer silence but create so much noise in other people’s life. We call ourselves positive though we are highly optimistic about the other person failing.
