The only way to live for others is to live for self. Unless you are happy, you can’t spread happiness. Unless you feel complete, you can’t help others overcome their void. Unless you achieve your dream, you can’t inspire others to achieve theirs. Unless you forgive yourself, you can’t love others. The starting point of changing the world is self. That’s all is needed by the world as your contribution.
I am not looking for your approval. Don’t waste your time on me. Find someone else. Initially, I did value your advice but I noticed that you have suggestions for everyone else other than yourself. From that day, you approval has no significance for me. It was tough for me to find my own way. I limped. I fell. But now I am good. I am walking again. I am making mistakes but I am learning on my own.
Everyone is looking to control the outside. It’s better to look inside. The only thing under your control is your own thoughts. Once you know yourself well, there will be no need to influence others. Once you find yourself, there will be no need to judge others. Once you win your conscience, there will be no need to fight others. Go inside; there is a bigger and beautiful world out there.
It is good of you to say that you are inspired by my courage. I respect you when you say that my strength motivates you. Let it be that way. Don’t even bother to look inside me. You may find a different story there. Don’t come too close. Draw inspiration from the world but be focussed on your own life. If someone becomes the reason for you to change yourself, do it. If someone pushes you to break free, do it. Sometimes, it is good not to bother about the burning candles fate. Just use the light to brighten your world.
You have unbelievable power. Even more, when you are pushed to limits. The belief that you can turn things around in itself is magical. Even if some situation makes you scared, weak and fearful, hold your emotions and be strong. When you exhibit strength, it multiplies. Take advantage of this. The world is banking on you. Prove their choice right.
We all have to go one day. We all know, yet we live as if we are here to stay forever. Our perspective to life can change if we realise that our time is limited on earth. We don’t have to fear death but being constantly aware about this can meaningfully alter our priorities in everyday life. Every breadth is a gift. Make good use of it. Live well and make it worthwhile for others too.
Like diamonds are mined from stones, success is mined from failures. When you are looking for diamonds, you don’t despise the mountain of stones. You keep your focus on diamonds. You are aware that the value of diamonds is because they are few among the stones. Similarly, never be intimidated by failures. Success lies somewhere in the midst of failures. Keep trying.
When you live your life well, you inspire many others. It motivates them to introspect their own life and make necessary changes to live a life of choice. You don’t have to shout and preach others. You simply need to make changes in your own life and it will give message to others to change theirs. You may not directly know the impact but it is more than you can count. A silent message hits the receptive mind. A loud noise only bangs on closed ears.
Keep walking. Don’t look for a destination.There are none.Take occasional stops to reflect for onward journey but never quit. You are blessed with extraordinary ability to pass all the test. Each obstacle is reminder of your strength. You will become weak without challenges. So, let them keep coming. Each time you cross over, you inspire many others. The purpose of your life should be to venture into the unknown. Experiment your life. There is no fun sitting inside with the door closed.
The world runs on performers and those who are privileged. It is because of them, the not so well to do are taken care of. And there is nothing wrong with this. A little extra cost to you helps someone to help someone else who can’t afford. Yes, the privileged ones must have worked hard to reach the top. Still, we can’t ignore the others. That is what humanity is all about.
